Andrew Sharp, my late
father-in-law, was an ordinary sort of bloke. He immigrated to New Zealand from
Scotland with his family when he was about knee high to a grass hopper. His
father, a veteran of both the Boer War and World War 1, worked in pubs around
Auckland.
When WW2 broke out Andrew, like
many young Kiwis and Aussies, reported for duty. He was shipped out to Egypt
leaving his family and fiancée behind. While training in Egypt he was stabbed
by a Nazi sympathiser when swimming during a recreation period. The perpetrator
was never caught.
Andrew's service medals |
Andrew took part in the Italian
campaign as a transport driver. One night this landed him and his mate in the
shit. Their camp came under attack and the ammunition dump blew up. They dived into the first trench they came to and, you guessed it, it was
the latrine.
After the war he returned to
Auckland, married his fiancée Myrla, and fathered two daughters. He worked as a
carpenter to provide for his family. Myrla died young while the younger of the
two girls was still at school. He later remarried a widow and became father to
her son.
Like most of us, he achieved neither
fame nor fortune. He was an ordinary bloke who lived an ordinary life. An
honest, hardworking bloke who provided for his family and contributed to the
community he lived in. A real handy man, in retirement he did what he
could to help those around him.
Today we see the end of the
2014 Winter Olympics. While Australia has won a few medals it has missed the
valued gold for the first time in a while. Those medals cost the Australian
public $10 million, which is considerably less than we paid for the medals won
at the Summer Olympics. An Olympic medal, especially gold, or success at the elite level in any sport, can open the door to fame and fortune. Long after they retire successful Olympians and other elite level athletes continue to be
feted, looked up to. They have, after all done their nation proud. They did it
for Australia - didn't they?
I disagree. An athlete, in
whatever sport, Olympic or otherwise, does it for the challenge, the enjoyment,
for self. At best, they do it for the team. It may be the pursuit of
excellence, but it is not service to the greater community. What do they
contribute to other than to the coffers of advertisers and sponsors. Now I admit
there are some, such as former Australian cricket captain Steve Waugh, who use
their status as champion sports persons to support worthwhile causes. But, I suspect, they are in the minority.
Andrew's 'old army mug', the beret of the Scottish Regiment, and a reminder of his Scottish heritage |
Until it got too much for him Andrew marched on ANZAC day with other ordinary blokes, all wearing their service
medals. And when he got too old to march he continued to attend ANZAC
services in the local RSA - the Kiwi equivalent to our RSL. There was nothing
'special' about his medals - no VC, MC or other award for bravery. Sleeping on
top of a truck load of four gallon (20 litre) drums of petrol in a war zone and
driving that truck to the front line was nothing outstanding. It was just the
sort of thing that ordinary soldiers did.
Andrew saw action at the Battle of Monte
Cassino. The last time he visited us in Sydney coincided with an ANZAC Day.
A night or two before the day the ABC screened a documentary on the battle.
Andrew asked if he could watch it, a request I was happy to agree to. In fact,
I looked forward to watching it with him. Sometime into the program Andrew made
another request, 'Would you mind turning it off?' Obviously it had triggered
painful memories. I didn't pry.
Old athletes bask in the glory
of their past achievements. Too many old soldiers live with the wounds,
physical and psychological, of their past. It is not only the soldiers, for families often share the cost of their loved one's
service.
There are many Andrews -
ordinary men and women who have answered their nation's call, who have simply
done their duty. There always have been and always will be.
Well written Ken. This should be sent to the newspapers
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DeleteWell written. You forgot to mention Timor that was not a nice place to be if you were on the first rotation in with kiwi army
DeleteThats OK Ken. The words are very powerful. I think you should send it to a newspaper seeing as Anzac Day is approching.
ReplyDeleteWonderful words, words which few will truly understand.
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ReplyDeleteWhat you conclude with in this excellent article is exactly what James Brown (recently retired RAAC who served in Iraq and the Ghan and closer to home) is saying in his book ANZAC's Long Shadow - our national obsession, Redback, Melbourne, 2014. Aside from agreeing with other readers of your article above that you publish it, I recommend a reading of Brown's book strongly.
RCB veterans as well as all other veterans will probably strongly agree which what you (and Brown) say about where the relative effort of recognition/support should go. Respect and revere our predecessors, but also support the living generation of veterans, not glorify other pursuits that have commercial overtones disproportionately, ANZAC or otherwise.
Thanks for your comments RL. I did a google on the book you mentioned. Looks like I have found something to spend some of the Christmas money on.
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Well said, Swampy. Civies will never understand.
ReplyDeleteThey still get confused between the words Veteran and ANZAC.
Hear hear...
ReplyDeleteAnd the only ones who will understand will be those who've served...
As said above I'm not sure a lot of civvies understand, we do it because thats what we do. I like a lot of my family and my wifes family have served but it was never done for the medals, after all these you may pay the highest price possible for, and there will be no fame or monetory gain.
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